Are You Successful? Yes or No? Which Life are You Leading?

 

Which life do you lead?

Do you consider your life to be constructive or would you describe it as destructive to you and all around you.

Both result from a chain reaction, one leading to a downward spiral and the other leading to an upward spiral. Living a Destructive Life What do you remember about your childhood, early adulthood?

Is it failing exams, being told off for not going to school, failing your driving test, leaving your first job because you kept making mistakes and thought they would probably sack you anyway? This perception of your early life can only lead to a negative self-image.

Your subconscious mind constantly focuses on these negative situations. When a new situation comes into your life, say you get a new job; your subconscious gets to work analysing this new set of information. It takes it apart and compares it to what has gone before. ‘…only stays a maximum of 18 months in a job so will have to move on in a year or so.’ ‘…had trouble with the boss in most past jobs so will have trouble with this one.’ ‘…got on with colleagues for the first six months then relationships went downhill so will have problems with colleagues by the end of the year.’ Your subconscious mind does not rationalise